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“Quer? Quer! Não quer? Tem quem queira...”?

É assim mesmo que funcionam as coisas? Quando você quer muito alguém, luta por isso ou desiste no primeiro momento de “cudocisse” da pessoa?

Estávamos eu e minha friend Danny, vulgo Broto, batendo aquele papo no MSN e entramos no assunto de “quem- eu- quero- não- me- quer- quem- me- quer- mandei- embora” e pensei: “Por que diabos é tão difícil essa soma infeliz de 1+1=2?”, por que na maioria das vezes estamos sempre investindo nas pessoas “erradas”? Ou melhor, por que a gente costuma não gostar de quem ta ali querendo nosso AMOR? Hein? (risos).

Bom, sempre fui a favor de “Se tu queres, vai à luta”, claro que tudo no limite, né? Se aparentar muito que a pessoa não tá afim de você, sem necessidade de ficar correndo atrás, mas se dá pra ver uma brechinha que seja, então, não custa tentar.

Agora, pensando pelo lado inverso da situação: aquela pessoa fofa (ok, aqui pode entrar uma pessoa mala também) tá super afim e você nem repara, ou até repara, mas nem dá muita conversa, pois é... Alguém aqui acha que vale a pena ficar com quem te quer, mesmo que você não queira?

Em contrapartida, indo de encontro com um velho dito popular “Quem escolhe muito acaba escolhido”, aposto que muita gente por aí acaba se apavorando e deixando pra trás a pessoa LINDA que não te olha, pela FEIA que te quer (só para esclarecer: usei os adjetivos lindo/feio apenas para descrever situações antônimas, não estou aqui falando de aparências, ok) e fica infeliz para sempre apenas pela falta de coragem de lutar um pouquinho pelo que deseja, porque na primeira atitude menos esperada do ser em questão, a gente já pula fora dizendo “Quer? Quer! Não quer? Tem quem queira...” quando o outro talvez só possa estar num dia ruim, em uma crise existencial ou algo do tipo.

Bom, no final das contas eu só consegui dizer para minha amiga, que ela anda querendo as pessoas erradas, o que não a ajudou muito. (risos) Mas, se alguém tiver uma opinião diferente a respeito e quiser compartilhar, seria interessante.
Dicas do Alexandre Inagaki. Tem a ver... Dá uma olhadela:



23 comentários:

Marco Aurelio disse...

verdade, jah passei por momentos assim de gostar e a pessoa nao me querer e vice-versa, ainda bem que melhorou. Mas infelizmente estah voltando novamente ^^.

como diz um amigo meu "queria entender os humanos". cada pessoa tem seu 'mundo', encontrar um 'mundo' semelhante eh muito compliado.

aproveitando que o poster estah cheio de frases, eu lebrei de que "Quem não arrisca não petisca!"
sendo assim; e eu Gabi, tenho chance? hehe

beijo krinhoso, paz e luz irmaos

DCAMARNEIRO disse...

Ooo brotoo to eu aqui pra comentar, afinal eu fui a inspiração pra esse texto..kkk...sim sou eu gente a loka que só escolhe pessoas erradas!!!rs
Mas sabe o que é engraçado por longos momemtos essas pessoas parecem ser perfeitas, no meio do caminho se perdem e se tornam as erradas.Fico pensando que será que eu fiz dessa vez hein!?!?MAs ando refletinfo btt e vendo que a culpada não sou só eu.rs.
É como a Gabi disse ando escolhendo os errados, mas quem sabe um dia o certo não cai do céu hein?!?!?!kkkk
Brotooo adorei seu textoo e valeu por me escutar sempree!!!
Bjãooooooooooooooo

Rodrigo Furquim disse...

Bom, esse foi um grande dilema no início da casa dos 20 anos, amar ou ser amado, os porquês da grande dificuldade de encontrar a tampa da panela, essas coisas...
Mas em contrapartida vejo amigos meus que namoram desde o colegial, e nem por isso são mais ou menos felizes.

Mesmo estando no limbo emocional (fase de total descompromisso em criar relações), não podemos nos privar das pequenas alegrias proporcionadas pela aventura de conhecer o novo.

Descobrir os defeitos e qualidades do amante, permitir-se que essa nova pessoa faça parte de seu universo, dividir momentos.
Eu acredito no amor em forma de conquista, coisas do dia a dia fazendo o amor florescer ou minguar. Paixão, tesão e desejo são sentimentos muito extremos que são sempre exauridos em si mesmos.
Amar ou ser amado? Bom, acho que a pergunta deveria ser: Permitir ou ser permitido?

Patrick Roberto disse...

O seu para sempre é tão amplo. Vc tem horizontes mil a explorar. Está na hora de tomar as rédeas.

Inagaki disse...

Escrevi um conto, sugestivamente intitulado "Bons Amigos", em que afirmo: "O problema deste mundo são esses amores não-correspondidos e desperdiçados a toda hora, entende? Como paixões que são despertadas negligentemente, ilusões platônicas que acabam com gosto de soco na alma, noites de sexo mal interpretadas, amores exilados que não encontram seu lugar no mundo, como peças extraviadas de um quebra-cabeça. O problema todo se resume nisso: corações e cérebros não falam a mesma língua."

O texto na íntegra está aqui: http://tinyurl.com/bonsamigos

Gabriela Silva disse...

Esse tema é de uma complexidade infinita pra mim!
Tento e tento novamente entender certas questões que acho que só serão compreendidas mais pra frente. Talvez seja apenas uma questão de maturidade emocional ou não rs
De qualquer maneira, concordo que as vezes o mais importante é conhecer as pessoas, independente da intensidade da relação. Como disse Rodrigo, permitir-se!
O meu "pra sempre" é sempre baseado na ação do momento rs, talvez por isso ela pareça tão amplo, mas na verdade, ele anda muito limitado Patrick.
Marco, querido, você é mesmo um docinho... Ri a valer do seu comentário.
Broto... Minha fonte de inspiração! rs
E Alexandre, amei seu conto! Li e reli e puts... Tudo a ver com a situação que pretendi descrever nesse post. Por favor, volte sempre!
Obrigada a todos pelas contrbuições, dicas e afins!

Grande beijo!

Patrick disse...

"Sonha, poeta!... O sonho é o entorpecente,
o mais sublime tóxico do mundo,
a morfina ideal do teu viver...
- sonha um sonho infinito, azul, profundo
Indefinidamente,
e esquece a vida que tu tens presente
pela vida maior que há no teu Ser! (...)

Não poderás viver ao chão pousado
porque escravo da terra tu não és...
- nasceste para o azul imensurado
para rasgar o céu de asas abertas,
não tendo ao solo acorrentado os pés! (...)

Sonha! Que este sonhar só bem te faz!
Sê sempre o mesmo:
Um louco!
Um incomum!
Não te sujeites a domínio algum
e que o teu sonho não acabe mais!"

Sweet Begônia

Silvia Gonçalves disse...

Pô Gabriela,... o assunto é muito complexo.. vai inclusive mexer com a nossa crise existêncial de "pq eu nasci se eu não posso ser feliz com quem eu gosto"...
É complicado demais ...
Mas é difícil ficar com alguém que não queira... e quase nunca dá certo.. pq no fundo, não é a mesma coisa...

Enfim...
Difícil...

Gostei do seu blog e vou acompanhá-lo.. qdo quiser, visite o meu tb.. pensamentosdasil.blogspot.com

Bjinhos
Sil

Gabriela Silva disse...

Pois é Sil... Essa do "pq eu nasci se eu não posso ser feliz com quem eu gosto" é uma questão que abrange muitas outras em nossa vida, porque tudo acaba dependendo de outras vidas, fatores externos, nossos sentimentos as vezes confusos rs Enfim, um tremendo balaio de gato, mas que no final se ajeita. Ou pelo menos assim espero rs
Obrigada pelo visita e fico feliz por vc resolver acompanhar o blog.
Fique certa que espiarei um seu!
Beijão!

Adiel disse...

caracashhhh!!! irado esse tema..

na meu caso, tenho esse pensamento quando tenho uma decepção.

as vezes vc ta com uma pessoa, e na verdade essa pessoa eh outra pessoa, que vc na verdade pensava que era outra, que eh diferente dessa, pq os pensamentos dela saum diferentes da pessoa que vc pensasse que fosse,... ufa!

naum dá mesmo,,,eh complicado hehe

mas vou seguir o conselho da minha mãe: "Meu filho, o que eh nosso ta bem guardado"

Mamãe... tomara hehe..

bju

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